i had an interesting 4th of july weekend! so here goes;
on friday i went to johanna's house for a bbq and then to light some fireworks. we talked about her wedding which will soon come up on the 19th of this month. she was showing me the favors and decorations and giving me advise (which by the way i have 7 months to go!!!) the night went by okay, leo and i got a lot of ideas from them for our own wedding.
on saturday my friend joanna (not johanna my employee) invited me to a bbq at her house which at first i was not to sure to go but i ended up going anyway. it was the most dramatic day i've encountered in years!!!
i'm too lazy to give details and it just sounds like a jr high/high school "kickback" where anyone can come in and out and drink your beer even though it was a "byob" (bring your own beer) occassion. the point was that there were all kids of people there that she didn't even know. it was like a friend brings a friend thing. ernesto has always been jealous of her guy friends especially since she has a guy best friend, sergio. anyway, everyone was drunk (but me) including joanna. long story short, ernesto wanted to fight sergio and sergio wanted to talk to him and ask him why he disliked him so much. joanna got in between them and started pulling at ernesto's (long) hair. it was funny, i have to admit, watching joanna do that! she was pulling it so hard it looked like he wanted to smack her. everyone started to get excited and by this time joanna's younger, drunk and underage sister was also swinging at ernesto. these guys that came with ernesto's bandmate's brother (wanna be gangsters i assume) wanted to fight sergio! i kept telling them it was none of their business while joanna was up in her room CRYING and ernesto was outside mad as hell with a look to kill in his eyes, his hands bleeding and a group of retarded guys trying to proove how big their balls were, plotting to not only fight with sergio but shoot him. it was getting a bit too out of hand so i told them that if they didn't leave i would call the cops. FINALLY after a lot of pursuading and after joanna's little sister smacked a couple of those guys (that was funny too) they left the "party". i slept over her house that night because after her sister sobered up she realized what she had done and felt scared that they might return to do something to them, being that they were alone (parents went out of town) so i stayed.
there are little side conflicts which i'll leave unmentioned it was some freakn' party! i knew i shouldn't have gone. i usually end up seing a lot of people i would rather not be around.
bla blah blah.... leo called all that scene a high school dance with dramatic, immature people who refuse to grow up and deal with their problems like adults. i agree with him. they have less problems than what they think. i don't even think those are considered problems. it's s obvious that all she really needs to do is grow up. get rid of people that are ruining her life and finally realize that she's not in high school anymore. it's been 4 years. GET OVER IT!!!! GROW UP!!! MOVE ON!!! RESPECT YOURSELF!!! believe that you can have a much better life. that you can be treated right for a change!! that you're an adult who instead of trying to figure out where you'll be hanging out with
next week or who you'll hook up with should be concerned with what you're doing with your life and how much MORE drama you're creating for yourself! why can't she just get that?! or am i wrong? am i thinking like an almost married woman with a life to plan out? am i the one who's wrong?
i don't think so!!! i'm so glad i grew up and out of that stage.
2:36 p.m. - 2003-07-07
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